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Tips For Manifesting Goals

January 17, 2013 by Monte Farber

If guided mental imagery can help you manifest what you like, it should come as no surprise that daily visualization of what you do not like will, unfortunately, help you manifest that as well. That is why it is so important for you to become aware of the tone and subject matter of your moment-to-moment inner dialogue.

If you continually think you are weak or unable to do what you want, you will reinforce that in yourself. Whenever you find yourself drifting back into old patterns of negative thinking, don’t get mad, get even. Just smile at the tenacity of this nasty habit that is struggling to stay alive to hurt you and know you have the power to easily defeat it. Then go back to visualizing what it is you want with all your heart. Do not wait until you are very old to learn the truth of this. There’s no time to waste.

You can make up your own affirmations to suit the nature of your goal. Many people write their affirmations on either business- or index-sized cards so they can carry them around, put them on their bathroom mirror, refrigerator, etc.

For example, if you feel you are stuck in your present job but don’t seem to be able to do anything about it, you might want to first think of something you used to think you could not do but did anyway for a boost of positive energy. With that feeling of your demonstrated power still flowing through you, use your affirmations. Try something like “I accomplish what I put my mind to,” “I am qualified for a job I enjoy” or “I deserve to get paid well for doing a job I enjoy” and “I am on the lookout for new job opportunities which are coming to me now.”

You should repeat your affirmations whenever you want, especially when you catch yourself thinking thoughts that you know work against your best interests. After a while you will be in the habit of thinking positively about yourself and your capabilities.

(C) Monte Farber

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Intention Ritual for the New Year

January 7, 2013 by Monte Farber

Make that change!

Use at least three stones or crystals to form a triangle on the ground large enough for you to sit within it cross-legged. Hold a small drum, rattle or other percussion instrument which represents woman’s inseparable connection to the rhythms of Life. Breathe deeply as you visualize new and exciting changes entering your life and your triangle of power with every inhalation. With every exhalation imagine the old and outdated leaving you and your triangle. Strike your drum or shake your rattle as you recite the following words:

Goddess of the New
Goddess of all Change
Help my situation
Watch it re-arrange

Keep reciting these words in time to the drum until you lose yourself in the chant. You will find that when you have stopped dwelling on your situation you will be struck with a new idea on how to proceed. Move 11 things in your home that you have not moved in a year. Give away 11 articles of clothing you have not worn in a year. You will encounter unexpected, positive results from your efforts to change your life.

(C) Monte Farber from Goddess, Guide Me!

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The How to Grow a Soul Mate Checklist

December 27, 2012 by Monte Farber

As to meeting a potential soul mate, it’s not about where you go—charity functions, bars, the internet. In other words, it’s not about what you do; it’s about how you do it, how you act, the kind of energy you send out. Where you go to meet people is irrelevant. Taking this advice “magnetizes” the right person to you. Use this checklist to discern who you do and don’t want. Begin to act accordingly and see what happens.

1. Never take each other for granted. Show how lucky you feel to know each other and make sure to spend as much time together as possible. Work together, if you can. Giving little gifts for no special reason will delight your partner and yourself!

2. Treat each other as equals. You may not have the same background, looks, talents, connections, power or potential, but you are two halves of the same team. Act like it.

3. Always compliment each other on good qualities and do it several times a day. If you like the way he/she looks, smells or makes you feel today, say so.

4. Have concern for each other’s total welfare, even if it causes you to reverse yourself on some long-cherished notion. Make the other person’s needs as important as your own. Once you have determined that you have found your soul mate, you can make his/her needs more important than your own. Don’t worry—you will want to do so.

5. Be kind. Really listen to each other’s words, and try to understand each other’s position. Do not assume that you know how the other feels. Ask when you want to know something. Never refuse to communicate.

6. Get to the root of anger, frustration, anxiety and fear. Learn to tell when you are the problem and when you might be the solution, and try to be the solution more often than the problem.

7. Always show how happy you are to see each other and smile, even if you are in the middle of hearing the most annoying news. Remember, you are each the most important and powerful thing in each other’s lives. Everything else is secondary.

8. Forgive each other and mean it. Have the courage to be imperfect. Admit it when you are wrong. Assume that you could be wrong, even when you think you are right; it is not as hard as it sounds.

9. Always use criticism carefully and constructively. Do not demand change from anyone but yourself. Do not demand change from anyone but yourself. It’s important enough to say twice.

10. Share and explore your fantasies, dreams for the future, and the dreams you awaken from. Never go to sleep angry. Making up can do wonders for your ability to sleep soundly.

11. Compromise whenever possible, especially on matters of taste. Eat the same food so your breaths will smell the same. If that is impossible, do not eat foods or wear scents, styles, and colors that offend your soul mate.

12. Keep a positive attitude and a sense of humor, especially about yourself. No matter what happens, if you two are together, relatively healthy, and your bills are paid, laugh at the other stuff.

If your potential partner resists these twelve rules for soul mate nurturing, or if she or he does not treat you with the same caring and kindness, you will have to tell her or him. Don’t give up on her/him if she/he makes an effort to change after you gently and tactfully make her/him aware of your concerns.

c) Monte Farber from The Soulmate Path

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Ritual for Winter Solstice

December 14, 2012 by Monte Farber

Winter solstice is of course, the longest night and shortest day of the year. “Solstice” in Latin actually means “the sun stands still.” And so it is—the sun has stopped retreating but hasn’t yet begun to come back. As I’ve discovered more about the winter solstice, I’ve learned that different cultures around the world have honored the sun and its rebirth.

For instance in India, Pongol is the Hindu solstice celebration. The Hopi Indians have a ritual where they light fires to energize and entice the safe return of “The Light.” In Japan, winter solstice is a time when the sun goddess Amaterasu would come out of her cave. Hanukkah actually means “festival of lights.” And Christians around the world celebrate Christmas, a time when the Christ child brings back light and a renewal of hope to the world.

Today, many people celebrate the holidays of the season—Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa—without thinking about their winter solstice origins. In fact, most of the holiday customs and traditions of December—miraculous events, giving gifts, celebrating with family, decorating with lights, pine cones, Yule logs, even the colors white, red and green—are actually connected to ancient winter solstice celebrations.

We like to say a special prayer to “Welcome the Return of Light.” It goes like this:

May darkness give way to Light.

We are awake within the Night.

Turn the wheel to bring the Light.

With the powers of Fire, Air, Water and Earth,

We welcome the Light.

Strengthen our hope.

Fill us with Peace.

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SYNCHRONICITY

October 22, 2012 by Monte Farber

“Synchronicity takes the coincidence of events in space and time as meaning something more than mere chance, namely, a peculiar interdependence of objective events among themselves as well as with the subjective (psychic) states of the observer or observers. ~ C. G. Jung, I Ching or The Book of Changes

One of Carl Jung’s favourite quotes on synchronicity was from Through the Looking-Glass by Lewis Carroll, in which the White Queen says to Alice: “It’s a poor sort of memory that only works backwards”.

‘It’s very good jam,’ said the Queen.
‘Well, I don’t want any TO-DAY, at any rate.’
‘You couldn’t have it if you DID want it,’ the Queen said. ‘The rule is, jam to-morrow and jam yesterday–but never jam to-day.’
‘It MUST come sometimes to “jam to-day,”‘ Alice objected.
‘No, it can’t,’ said the Queen. ‘It’s jam every OTHER day: to-day isn’t any OTHER day, you know.’
‘I don’t understand you,’ said Alice. ‘It’s dreadfully confusing!’
‘That’s the effect of living backwards,’ the Queen said kindly: ‘it always makes one a little giddy at first–’
‘Living backwards!’ Alice repeated in great astonishment. ‘I never heard of such a thing!’
‘–but there’s one great advantage in it, that one’s memory works both ways.’
‘I’m sure MINE only works one way,’ Alice remarked. ‘I can’t remember things before they happen.’
‘It’s a poor sort of memory that only works backwards,’ the Queen remarked.

 

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Know Thyself

October 8, 2012 by Monte Farber

Inscribed upon the two pillars at the entrance to the Oracle at Delphi were the two essential pieces of advice for having a successful and healthy life: “Nothing in excess,” and “Know thyself.”  It is a warning to pay no attention to the opinion of the multitude.

Growth comes through self-examination and self-awareness. Know thyself. In our case, it was our commitment to our mutual goal of personal and artistic development that has allowed us to learn and help each other grow. We may not know the meaning of life, but we have come to know the meaning of our life.

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Discover your true colors

September 10, 2012 by Monte Farber

Color is a powerful force, the visible manifestation of atomic vibration and energy absorption. Using color properly can improve your appearance, your home life and your place of business. The right color promotes the vibrations that can enhance moods, set the tone for meetings of all kind, and accent natural beauty in a number of magical ways. Without color the world is a drab place, indeed. With it, all things are possible.Colors have the power to heal, empower, and impress.

How do you develop the confidence to dress as the individual you are and strut your stuff with dignity and grace? Colors are energy forces that can be tapped for personal power and understanding of your inner and outer worlds. They help us focus, balance, and guide us past stumbling blocks and on to take the right actions to beautify our life. What color are you today?

Red is the most dynamic color. It is activating, passionate, and exciting.

Orange is very stimulating, cheerful and sociable.

Yellow is very happy, warm, and expansive. Yellow encourages optimism and hope and helps to n and stimulates the intellect.

Green is very balancing, healing, and tranquil. It represents growth, vitality, abundance, and nature.

Blue is calming, healing, soothing, and relaxing. Blue characterizes contemplation and spirituality.

Purple represents nobility and dignity. It is often related to intuition and spirituality.

Black connotes sophistication, power, protection and elegance. It is also introspection and mysterious.

White represents clarity, innocence, cleanliness, purity, hope, and openness.

Grey is neutral, calm, and quiet. It is conservative.

Brown is stable, earthy, grounding, reliable and comfortable.

Pink is soothing. It also symbolizes love and romance.

 

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Trees Are Like Us!

August 27, 2012 by Monte Farber

Trees are like us: complex, sensitive, and highly spiritual living beings. Perhaps nothing else is as representative of the living energy of nature and Mother Earth as a tree. The folklore attributed to a particular tree reflects the symbolism ascribed to it by our ancestors, who worshipped trees as living totems of life’s mysterious cycles and seasons. Not only did trees represent spirituality to them, but they provided a vast resource for ancient peoples—food, shade, and medicine, as well as wood for eating utensils, weapons, homes, warmth, cooking, even art.

Trees exude elemental wisdom that is available to us on the psychic plane whether we are aware of it or not. They are benevolent beings who like to share their deep sense of peace with those who are in harmony with nature and its spirits, and sometimes they’ll even advise someone who’s in trouble. One of my first psychic experiences occurred when I was a young rock-and-roll musician and caught up in the unhealthy habits that kind of work environment all too often reinforces. I was driving behind a giant tree-moving truck that was slowly transporting an enormous tree in its gargantuan metal spades, which had mercilessly cut through this venerable tree’s roots and lifted it out of its birthplace. I tried to send positive thoughts of support and healing to what I thought was a great being in distress and was amazed to hear in my psychic perception, as clearly as if it was coming from a person sitting next to me, the words “I’m fine; it’s you I’m worried about!” I was truly astounded and cleaned up my act a few months later (old habits die hard).

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Are You Psychic?

August 15, 2012 by Monte Farber

Everyone is born a little bit psychic. You may not use it all the time, but there is something inside all of us that all-too-occasionally amazes us with “lucky guesses” and flashes of insight. A recent University of Chicago national poll revealed that 67% of Americans “now profess a belief in the supernatural” and that 42% “believe they have been in contact with someone who died.” A Gallup Poll confirms: 49% believe in ESP, 25% feel like the have experienced telepathy and 14% have consulted a psychic.

I wasn’t born with the ability to hear the dead “speak” and know the future, but I developed the intuitive gift we are all born with through decades spent researching intuition and psychic phenomena.  I’ve written many books to help others tune into their own psychic abilities. Some people are only intuitive about crisis situations. Some people just get names out of the blue for people. Like chefs, different psychics have their specialties. I know a psychic who is good at business but not good at love. Some people who are born psychic see it as a curse and not a blessing. I’ve read read for the police to help solve cold murder cases, for private investigators on international assignments, as well as for many celebrities and corporations.

Day in and day out, our psychic imagination is speaking to us in the only language it understands, symbols and feelings, and what we have to do is learn how to listen. It wants to help us know the next step to take! Our gut feeling is our intuition and it is speaking to us all the time. There are many reasons we don’t listen to it and the biggest one is fear, not only fear of being wrong and embarrassed but also fear of being right and having our life change in ways we can’t always control or predict.

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The purpose of life is to be happy

August 8, 2012 by Monte Farber


Since childhood, I have truly believed that the purpose of life is to be happy. Yet, like everyone, throughout my life I have sometimes found myself not feeling happy at all. On one of those days I asked Amy “What do you think is the common denominator of all human-caused suffering?” Without a moment’s hesitation she replied, “Poor decision-making.”

It is hard for most people to admit their mistakes. However, deep down inside, it is hard for anyone to deny that it has usually been their own poor decisions that have led to their difficulties. We are all too painfully aware to admit even to ourselves that we could have and should have been able to foresee the outcome of our decisions and the actions we took based on those decisions.

Of course there are those who are challenged by the circumstances of their birth or by accidents. However, as the inspirational stories of Helen Keller and many other people have shown, when we are challenged by circumstances over which we have no apparent control, we still have the power to decide how we are going to react to those circumstances. Are we going spend our time bemoaning our fate or are we going to experience the hard times, pick ourselves up, learn from our situation as best we can, and do the best we can?

 

© Monte Farber, from his book THE SOULMATE PATH
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